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		<description><![CDATA[Don&#8217;t underestimate the length, its an absolutely beautiful story, Subhan&#8217;Allah. Qazi Abu Bakr Muhammad bin Abdul Baqi Ansari is an illustrious personality of Islamic History. He was the most pious person of his time. Even after the lapse of nine centuries, his exemplary life is a source of guidance to Muslims. His biographers tell a [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=sisterslink.wordpress.com&amp;blog=7236497&amp;post=243&amp;subd=sisterslink&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Don&#8217;t underestimate the length, its an absolutely beautiful story, Subhan&#8217;Allah.</p>
<h6><span style="color:#333399;"><span style="font-size:small;"><span style="font-size:x-small;">Qazi  Abu Bakr Muhammad bin Abdul Baqi Ansari is an illustrious personality  of Islamic History. He was the most pious person of his time. Even after  the lapse of nine centuries, his exemplary life is a source of guidance  to Muslims. His biographers tell a number of tales of his honesty and  reliability but the one that affected his whole life is full of strange  and unique events. He has narrated this story in his own words and it  adorns the pages of history books.</span></span></span></h6>
<h6><span style="color:#800080;">&#8220;In  the middle of the 5th century Hijri, I was a student of the Holy Quran  and Hadith in Makkah. During that period, I once became jobless and my  means of income came to an end. I managed, somehow, to subsist for a few  days but soon it became hard to obtain even two square meals. My  studies were discontinued and I had to sell a few of my books to support  myself. I was at the edge of starvation but my feelings of self-respect  did not allow me to borrow or beg from anybody.</span></h6>
<h6><span style="color:#333399;">One  day, I was hungry, as usual. I went to the Holy Ka&#8217;bah to pray to  Almighty Allah to save me from my sad plight. On my way back, I saw a  velvet cloth pouch lying near the road edge. I picked it up. It was  nicely sewn and neatly tied with a silk cord. I looked around to find  its owner but the road was deserted and nobody was in sight. I carried  the pouch to my house.</span></h6>
<h6><span style="color:#800080;">I  was curious to know the contents of the small bag. As I untied the  cord, a very precious necklace of pearls slipped into my hand. The  luster of the spotless pearls almost lit my room. The pearls of  different sizes were nicely put together in a string of crimson colored  silk. It was a radiant beauty and I was thrilled to hold the valuable  ornament. For a moment, I altogether forgot the hungry and pitiable  state in which I was. My thoughts went to the unfortunate owner who had  lost the precious jewelry. He must be unhappy and very worried due to  his great loss. The course of action which I instantly decided on was to  look for the owner and give him back his necklace to relieve him of  this mental suffering. It never came to my mind to keep it wrongfully in  my possession. So I set out to search for him. Leaving the bag behind, I  went straight to the place were it was found.</span></h6>
<h6><span style="color:#333399;">A  group of excited men were standing there and were busy in anxious  conversation. I went close to them. Their topic of discussion was the  missing pouch of pearls. An old man whose nobility and magnanimity was  evident from his imposing personality, was standing amidst them. He was  explaining the loss of his pearls to the attentive audience and was  announcing a reward of five hundred gold coins to the person who could  help him in recovering the lost necklace.</span></h6>
<h6><span style="color:#800080;">I  listened to his account of the loss very carefully. When I was sure of  his ownership, I held his hand gently and requested him to come along  with me. He looked at me very hopefully and without asking any  questions, he followed me. On the way back to my house, I was  delightfully thinking that a handsome amount of five hundred dinars  would be mind after a short while. The very thought of getting a reward  of that much money was very pleasing. I was wondering whether my  miseries would be over. I would no longer be a hungry or poor person.  With such happy ideas in my mind, I entered my house and also invited  the old man to come in.</span></h6>
<h6><span style="color:#333399;">When  we sat down, I asked my perplexed guest about some marks of  identification of his lost bad, so that his ownership could be  established beyond doubt. He readily explained the shape and color of  the pouch. He told me about its contents and gave an exact count of the  pearls. He even described the tying cord. It convincingly proved that he  was the rightful owner of the bad and the necklace of pearls. I  silently rose and brought out the necklace pouch. As he saw it, his  gloomy expression at once changed. His shining eyes beamed with joy and  he looked at me with sincere gratefulness. His pleasant glance of thanks  impressed me, and my own mode of thinking suddenly changed.</span></h6>
<h6><span style="color:#333399;"><span style="color:#800080;">A  little earlier, I was enjoying the idea of getting a good reward but  now my mind was reasoning as to what I had actually done to deserve it.  It was by sheer chance that the bag had came into my possession. I had  exerted no efforts to obtain it. Therefore, why did I expect to get a  reward for returning it to its rightful owner? But I was actually in  dire need of money. My poverty and the grim realities of life were  looking me in the face. Why shouldn&#8217;t I accept the reward? It was  absolutely legitimate and surely there was no harm in taking it. A  painful conflict of indecision was going on within me and I was in an  uneasy state of double mindedness.</span><br />
The noble old man  was looking at the necklace again and again as to assure himself of its  recovery. He then looked at me and said, &#8220;O dear me, you are a virtuous  person and I thank you from the core of my heart. I am unable to  express fully my feelings o fgratittude for your act of praiseworthy  conduct. Nevertheless, I offer you a purse of five hundred dinars as a  humble present and request you to kindly accept it.&#8221;</span></h6>
<h6><span style="color:#800080;">He  then placed in front of me a purse full of gold coins. A conflicting  struggle of ideas was still going on in my mind. The sight of money  which was within my easy reach was very tempting but I checked myself  and said, &#8220;Sir, I thank you for offering me a substantial amount as a  reward but it is impossible for me to accept it.&#8221;</span></h6>
<h6><span style="color:#333399;">&#8220;Why  not?&#8221; asked my noble guest, &#8220;You justly deserve the reward because I am  giving it entirely of my own free will. I gladly give it to you as a  humble token of my gratitude. Please do not dishearten me by refusing  it.&#8221; I replied, &#8220;Sir, I cannot even think of being rude to decline your  kind offer, but iti is certainly improper for me to take it without  doing anything to earn it. The necklace is yours and I happened to find  it only by chance. Its restoration to you does not entitle me to take  anything in return. Please do not insist on me to accept what is not  morally due to me.&#8221;</span></h6>
<h6><span style="color:#800080;">He  was rather surprised by my firm refusal. Normally people yearn for  money but I was adamantly declining it. He said, &#8220;My son! It is a virtue  to be an honest person but the money is which is being offered to you  is not disallowed by our faith. It is not prohibited to offer or accept  such presents. Therefore, I request you to reconsider your unrealistic  stand and keep that purse for the sake of my pleasure if not for  anything else.&#8221;</span></h6>
<h6><span style="color:#333399;">I  said, &#8220;Sir, I do not at all intend to displease you, but the pleasure  of Almighty Allah is more important to be reckoned with than your or my  pleasure. If there is any good in my action, I will prefer to leave the  matter to His Grace for compensation, which I do not wan tot risk for  all the riches of this world. Kindly do not insist because I am  determined not to accept any undue reward.&#8221; My guest collected his pouch  and purse and stood much dejectedly to leave. He patted me on the back  and left without a word.</span></h6>
<h6><span style="color:#800080;">After  a week or so, I got back my previous job. My days of deprivation and  hunger were over. I rejoined my classes and forgot all about the  incident I my busy schedule of daily routine. I exerted all of my energy  to acquire knowledge of the Holy Qur&#8217;an and Hadith. My main subject of  interest was Islamic Jurisprudence. I completed my studies with a  distinction.</span></h6>
<h6><span style="color:#333399;">On  the recommendation of my tutor, I was offered an appointment as Qazi of  Qurtaba, (Cordova) the capital city of Haspaniyah (presently known as  Spain). I readily accepted the post and started to prepare myself very  happily for the long journey. I took leave of my colleagues and went to  the port of Jeddah to embark on the ship for my destination. I boarded a  merchant ship to carry me to the land of my future hopes.</span></h6>
<h6><span style="color:#800080;">For  the first few days, the voyage was smooth and very enjoyable. Then  suddenly a violent storm of severe intensity overtook us and the ship  was engulfed by stormy waves. The mountain high waves tossed the ship  around like a tiny toy. The masts were broken and the sails torn. A  mighty wave crushed the ship and wrecked it completely. A few screams  were heard and it was all over. I saw some floating boards and a few  victims of the crash swimming around trying to save their lives. They  were the only survivors of the hapless ship who were drifting over the  ocean surface. When I recovered from the shock, I found myself clinging  to a plan and moving with it at the mercy of the waves.</span></h6>
<h6><span style="color:#333399;">After  drifting for two days, in a semi-conscious state, the waves tossed me  upon the shore. I thanked Almighty Allah for saving me from the jaws of  death. I was so weak that I couldn&#8217;t move. I helplessly lay there  exposed to the scorching heat of the burning rays of the sun. I crawled  to the dim shadows of a thorny bush. I lost track of time and was in a  state between dizziness and heavy slumber.</span></h6>
<h6><span style="color:#333399;"><span style="color:#800080;">After  some time, I slightly opened my eyes and saw a few strange faces  staring at me. They poured a few drops of water into my mouth and I came  out of my oblivion but was still unable to speak. They made up a  stretcher and carried me to a nearby town. When we approached near it,  the first man-made thing which caught my eye was a towering minaret of a  Masjid. I thanked Allah for being among my own brethren of faith.</span><br />
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They  took me to a house belonging to one of them and laid me on a  comfortable bed. With proper care, feeding, and treatment, I soon  regained my lost energy. I told my kind host all about myself and the  mishap of the ship wreck. My host, whose name was Faleh Hasan, informed  me that I was in Hodeida, a coastal town of Yemen. The tract where I was  luckily found was a desolate region and was a less treaded part of the  coast. Faleh Hasan and his friends noticed a few vultures circling over  the area, so they went to investigate and found me there in an  unconscious state. He introduced me to his friends and I expressed my  heartful thanks for saving my life. Due to their loving concern, I was  soon normal, both mentally and physically.</span></h6>
<h6><span style="color:#800080;">I  began to attend Masjid to offer my regular prayers and there I came to  know many persons of nobility and of high-ranking positions. They all  knew my unhappy episode through my host and treated me with  understanding and respect. One of them was the aged and pious Sheikh  Ahmad bin Suhail who usually led the prayers. He always greeted me with  fatherly affection which touched me to the heart.</span></h6>
<h6><span style="color:#333399;">One  day, he was a little late to arrive to the Masjid, so the people  requested me to lead the prayers. My hesitation and excuses proved to be  useless before their sincere appeals. That day I performed the duties  of Imam. I did my best to recite clearly the Verses of the Holy Qur&#8217;an  during the prayer and afterwards delivered a brief sermon on Islamic  Law. Everyone seemed to be highly impressed. Sheikh Ahmad bin Suhail  came forward and congratulated me on my excellent performance. I thanked  him for his appreciation and encouragement. I came back to the house of  my host filled with delight and self-confidence.</span></h6>
<h6><span style="color:#800080;">But  later, I had sometimes thought that I had overstayed my welcome. So  after the evening prayers, I stated my intention of leaving, but my host  disagreed with me. He wanted me to stay for a few more days to recoup  my health fully. At night, when I was going to bed, Sheikh Ahmad bin  Suhail came with a few respectable people of the town. The friends of  Faleh Hasan, who were my saviors, were also with them. When the  preliminary formalities of greeting each other were over and all were  comfortably seated, Sheikh Ahmad turned his eyes towards me and said,  &#8220;Dear Abu Bakr, I have been honored by these gentlemen to speak to you,  on behalf of them, about their commendable wish. I expect, you will  please assent to it.&#8221;</span></h6>
<h6><span style="color:#333399;">I  was perplexed by that kind of address. So I said nervously, &#8220;Sir, you  are very helpful and kind to me. I cannot disregard any of your commands  or wishes. You can order me to do anything and it will be an honor for  me to obey it.&#8221;</span></h6>
<h6><span style="color:#800080;">He  said, &#8220;Dear son, we all earnestly desire you to stay here with us  forever. The regular Imam of our Masjid had died last year. We still  mourn his death and perhaps will do so forever. His respect is deeply  rooted in our hearts. He had enlightened our lives with the torch of  knowledge. We wish you to take his place and consent to be our Imam. We  may not be able to offer you a better paid position than that of the  Qazi in Qurtaba, but we will surely give you our love, affection, and  respect.&#8221;</span></h6>
<h6><span style="color:#333399;">&#8220;But  Sir,&#8221; I protested, &#8220;I am a fresh, inexperienced student and feel small  to carry out the sacred duties of the high office of Imam.&#8221; The Sheikh  said, &#8220;My son, do not underestimate yourself. We all have heard your  recitiation and sermon, and are fully convinced of your ability to  fulfill those responsibilities.&#8221;</span></h6>
<h6><span style="color:#800080;">Before  I could think of any evasive answer, my host, Faleh Hasan, and his  friends vehemently backed up the proposal. I was left with no other  alternative but to nod in affirmative. Everybody was pleased with my  decision, especially Sheikh Ahmad who thanked me and kissed my forehead.  They all rose to leave and thanking me individually, departed very  happy.</span></h6>
<h6><span style="color:#333399;">They  left me thinking how the secret hands of fate change the course of  destiny in a secret manner. Circumstances secretly take such a turn that  they altogether change the plans made up by man. I had cherished the  hope of being a Qazi of Qurtaba and had taken steps to attain that goal,  but preordained events made me an Imam of the Masjid in Hodeida.</span></h6>
<h6><span style="color:#800080;">So  a new phase in my life began. I took charge of the imposed position and  shifted to the assigned house of the Imam. I restarted the primary  school that had closed due to the sad demise of the former Imam. I also  commenced evening classes to impart lessons to explain the meaning of  the Holy Qur&#8217;an.</span></h6>
<h6><span style="color:#333399;">I  completely adjusted myself to the new environment and people generally  accepted me as their religious leader. I was very contented and never  for a moment regretted my decision to settle there. All the people,  young and old alike, were happy and respected me. The feelings of any  estrangement all faded away and I became as if I was one of them for  ages.</span></h6>
<h6><span style="color:#800080;">One  day, Sheikh Ahmad came to me and after enquiring about my welfare,  said, &#8220;Dear Abu Bakr, your services to or townsmen are praiseworthy and  beyond our expectations. I am glad that you had accepted our offer of  staying with us. Now have come to you to ask one more favor.&#8221;</span></h6>
<h6><span style="color:#333399;">I said, &#8220;Sir, I am at your service. Please tell me and I will comply with your order.&#8221;</span></h6>
<h6><span style="color:#800080;">He  said, &#8220;Dear son, a man is not perfect without his partner of life. I  want you to marry and take full advantage of life. Marriage is also a  sacred Sunna of our Holy Prophet. The sweet marital responsibilities are  a real blessing which have been conferred onto man.&#8221;</span></h6>
<h6><span style="color:#333399;">I  replied, &#8220;Sir, you have always advised me in my best interest. I take  you as a father to me and in this matter also, I will follow you  counsel.&#8221;</span></h6>
<h6><span style="color:#800080;">The  Sheikh said, &#8220;Your predecessor, the late Imam of this Masjid was a very  close friend of mine. He had a daughter, and when he was sure of his  end, he entrusted her to my protection and care. Since then she has been  under my guardianship. She is a lovely and adorable girl of good  manners. Allah has endowed her with physical and mental beauty. She is  virtuous and is a suitable match for you. I wish to give her in marriage  to you and I feel sure that it will be a marriage of true minds.&#8221;</span></h6>
<h6><span style="color:#333399;">I  had no objection to the proposal whatsoever. A few days later, the  bonds of marriage united us. After the festive ceremonies were over,  Sheikh Ahmad escorted her to my house that was in fact her old abode  where she had lived with her late father. I looked at her and my gaze  was concentrated steadily on her. I forgot to even say welcome to her. I  was not only looking at her beautiful and charming face, and at her  downcast eyes; but my glance was riveted upon her pretty neck, which was  ornamented by precious pearls. I at once recognized that necklace. It  was the same necklace that I once found on a deserted road of Makkah. I  looked at her in silent and open-mouthed wonder.</span></h6>
<h6><span style="color:#800080;">Sheikh  Ahmad noticed my confused condition and thought that her beauty and the  luster of the pearls had enchanted me. He politely said, &#8220;Dear Abu  Bakr, that necklace and its wearer, both are yours now and you can take  all your time to behold them. It may, perhaps, interest you to know that  the necklace has a strange story of its own. Five years ago, my friend  went to Makkah for pilgrimage and took that necklace with him to get it  re-polished. There, he lost it. But due to the goodness of an honest  young man, he recovered it intact. That commendable young man refused to  sell his honesty and declined the pressing offer of a handsome reward.  He left a lasting impression upon my friend who always remembered and  talked about him. He once confided to me that he had a mind to go to  Makkah again and ask that virtuous young man to accept the hand of his  daughter, but time did not allow him to do so. Anyhow, it was destined  differently. His daughter was to become your wife instead of his. The  decreed decisions of fate are strange and beyond the understanding of  man.&#8221;</span></h6>
<h6><span style="color:#333399;">An  emotional storm erupted within me. The strange happenings of the  fateful events which were unfolded by the hidden hands of destiny  agitated me and drops of tears rolled down my cheeks; I looked towards  Sheikh Ahmad through misty eyes and said, &#8220;Dear Sir, you are very right  to say that insight into the unknown mysteries of fate is not possible.  It would perhaps be a pleasant surprise to know that I am the same  person who found the necklace and restored it to your friend. He, in  return, offered me an amount of five hundred dinars. Although I was a  pauper and was suffering from the agonies of hunger in those days, my  conscience did not allow me to accept anything that was not my due. I  pinned all my hopes and expectations of Almighty Allah for any reward.  And here I am with His gracious and greatest reward of all.&#8221;</span></h6>
<h6><span style="color:#800080;">Sheikh  Ahmad was amazed and without saying a word, he held my hand and shook  it was a passion. My newly wedded wife lifted her eyes and looked me  full in the face. Her eyes were filled with enthusiastic love that any  husband ever could desire for. Almighty Allah had bestowed upon me His  favors by giving me a considerate and loving wife and nothing in life  surpasses that bliss.&#8221;</span></h6>
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		<title>Eight Things to Learn</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 29 Aug 2010 22:37:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[One time a scholar asked one of his students, &#8220;You have spent a long time with me, what have you learned?&#8221; He said I learned eight things: First, I looked to the creation. Everyone has a loved one. When he goes to the grave, he leaves his loved one. Therefore, I made my loved one [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=sisterslink.wordpress.com&amp;blog=7236497&amp;post=237&amp;subd=sisterslink&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One time a scholar asked one of his students, &#8220;You have spent a long time with me, what have you learned?&#8221;</p>
<p>He said I learned eight things:</p>
<p>First,  I looked to the creation. Everyone has a loved one. When he goes  to the grave, he leaves his loved one. Therefore, I made my loved one  my good deeds; that way, they will be with me in the grave.</p>
<p>Second, I looked to the verse, &#8220;But as for him who feared to stand  before his Lord and restrained his soul from lust,&#8221; therefore, I  struggled against my desires so I could stay obeying Allah.</p>
<p>Third, I saw that if anyone has something with him that is worth  something, he will protect it. Then I thought about the verse,&#8221;That  which you have is wasted away; and that which is with Allah remains,&#8221;   therefore, everything worth something with me I devoted to Him so it  would be with Him for me.</p>
<p>Fourth,  I saw the people seeking wealth, honor and positions and it was  not worth anything to me. Then I thought about Allah&#8217;s words, &#8220;Lo, the  noblest of  you in the sight of Allah is the most aware of Allah, so I  did my best to become aware of Allah in order to gain nobility in his  sight.</p>
<p>Fifth, I saw the people being jealous towards each other and I looked at  the verse, &#8220;We have apportioned among them their livelihood in the life  of the world&#8221;, so I left jealousy.</p>
<p>Sixth, I saw the people having enmity and I thought about the verse, &#8220;Lo, the devil is an enemy for you, so take him as an enemy&#8221;, so I left enmity and I took the Satan as my only enemy.</p>
<p>Seventh, I saw them debasing themselves in search of sustenance and I  thought about the verse, &#8220;And there is not a beast in the earth but the  sustenance thereof depends on Allah&#8221;, so I kept myself busy with my  responsibilities toward Him and I left my property with Him.</p>
<p>Eighth, I found them relying on their business, buildings and health and I thought about the verse, &#8220;And whosoever puts his trust in Allah, He will suffice him&#8221;, therefore, I put my trust only on Allah.</p>
<p>Translated by: Jamal Zarabozo<br />
If you want the Rainbow, you got to put up with the rain&#8230;.</p>
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		<title>The Description of Paradise (Jannah)</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 14 Aug 2010 23:43:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[In the Name of Allâh, the Most Beneficent, the Most Merciful by Imaam Ibn al-Qayyim, Rahimahullaah Ibn al-Qayyim said, in regards to the description of the Paradise and the delights that it contains: “And if you ask about its ground and its soil, then it is of musk and saffron. And if you ask about [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=sisterslink.wordpress.com&amp;blog=7236497&amp;post=235&amp;subd=sisterslink&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In the Name of Allâh, the Most Beneficent, the Most Merciful  by Imaam Ibn al-Qayyim, Rahimahullaah Ibn al-Qayyim said, in regards to the description of the Paradise and the delights that it contains:  “And if you ask about its ground and its soil, then it is of musk and saffron.</p>
<p>And if you ask about its roof, then it is the Throne of the Most Merciful.  And if you ask about its rocks, then they are pearls and jewels.  And if you ask about its buildings, then they are made of bricks of gold and silver.</p>
<p>And if you ask about its trees, then it does not contain a single tree except that its trunk is made of gold and silver.</p>
<p>And if you ask about its fruits, then they are softer than butter and sweeter than honey.</p>
<p>And if you ask about its leaves, then they are softer than the softest cloth.</p>
<p>And if you ask about its rivers, then there are rivers of milk who’s taste does not change, and rivers of wine that is delicious to those who drink it, and rivers of honey that is pure, and rivers of water that is fresh.</p>
<p>And if you ask about their food, then it is fruits from whatever they will choose, and the meat of whatever birds they desire.</p>
<p>And if you ask about their drink, then it is Tasneem mix with ginger, and Kaafoor.</p>
<p>And if you ask about their drinking cups, then they are crystal-clear and made of gold and silver.</p>
<p>And if you ask about its shade, then a fast rider would ride in the shade of one of its trees for a hundred years and not escape it, where they could have Sex there.</p>
<p>And if you ask about its vastness, then the lowest of its people would have within his kingdom and walls and palaces and gardens the distance that would be travelled in a thousand years.</p>
<p>And if you ask about its tents and encampments, then one tent is like a concealed pearl that is sixty miles long.</p>
<p>And if you ask about its towers, then they are rooms above rooms in buildings that have rivers running underneath them.</p>
<p>And if you ask about how far it reaches into the sky, then look at the shining star that is visible, as well as those that are far in the heavens that the eyesight cannot possibly reach.</p>
<p>And if you ask about the clothing of its inhabitants, then they are of silk and gold.</p>
<p>And if you ask about its beds, then its blankets are of the finest silk laid out in the highest of its levels.</p>
<p>And if you ask about the faces of its inhabitants and their beauty, then they are like the image of the Moon.</p>
<p>And if you ask about their age, then they are young ones of 33 years in the image of Adam, the father of humanity.</p>
<p>And if you ask about what they will be hearing, then it is the singing of their wives from among the Hoor al-’Ayn, and better than that are the voices of the Angels and the Prophets, and better than that is the Speech of the Lord of the Worlds.</p>
<p>And if you ask about their servants, then they are young boys of everlasting youth who resemble scattered pearls.</p>
<p>And if you ask about their brides and wives, then they are young and full-breasted and have had the liquid of youth flow through their limbs; the Sun runs along the beauty of her face if she shows it, light shines from between her teeth if she smiles; if you meet her love, then say whatever you want regarding the joining of two lights; he sees his face in the roundness of her cheek as if he is looking into a polished mirror, and he sees the brightness from behind her muscles and bones; if she were to be unleashed upon the World, she would fill what is between the Heavens and the Earth with a beautiful wind, and the mouths of the creation would glorifiy, praise, and exclaim greatness, and everything between the East and the West would be adorned for her, and every eye would be shut from everthing but her, and the light of the Sun would be outshone just as the light of the Sun outshines the light of the stars, and everyone on the face of the Earth would believe in the Ever-Living, the One who Sustains and Protects all the exists.</p>
<p>And the covering on her head is better than the World and all that is in it, and she does not increase with age except in beauty; free from an umbilical cord, childbirth and menses, and pure of mucous, saliva, urine and other filthy things; her youth never fades, her clothing is never worn out, no garment can be created that matches her beauty, and no one who is with her can ever become bored; her attention is restricted to her husband, so she desires none but him, just as his attention is restricted to her so she is the sole object of his desire, and he is with her in utmost safety and security, as none has touched her before of either humans or Jinn.</p>
<p>And if you ask about the Day of Increase (in reward) and the visit of the all-Mighty, all-Wise, and the sight of His Face – free from any resemblance or likeness to anything – as you see the Sun in the middle of the day and the full Moon on a cloudless night, then listen on the day that the caller will call: ‘O People of Paradise! Your Lord – Blessed and Exalted – requests you to visit Him, so come to visit Him!’ So they will say: ‘We hear and obey!’</p>
<p>Until, when they finally reach the wide valley where they will all meet – and none of them will turn down the request of the caller – the Lord – Blessed and Exalted – will order His Chair to be brought there. Then, pulpits of light will emerge, as well as pulpits of pearls, gemstone, gold, and silver. The lowest of them in rank will sit on sheets of musk, and will not see what those who are on the chairs above them are given. When they are comfortable where they are sitting and are secure in their places, and the caller calls: ‘O People of Paradise! You have an appointment with Allaah in which He wishes to reward you!’ So they will say: ‘And what is that reward? Has He not already made our faces bright, made our scales heavy, entered us into Paradise, and pushed us away from the Fire?’</p>
<p>And when they are like that, all of a sudden a light shines that encompasses all of Paradise. So, they raise their heads, and, behold: the Compeller – Exalted is He, and Holy are His Names – has come to them from above them and majestified them and said: ‘O People of Paradise! Peace be upon you!’ So, this greeting will not be responded to with anything better than: ‘O Allaah! You are Peace, and from You is Peace! Blessed are You, O possessor of Majesty and Honor!’ So the Lord – Blessed and Exalted – will laugh to them and say: ‘O People of Paradise! Where are those who used to obey Me without having ever seen Me?</p>
<p>This is the Day of Increase!’  So, they will all give the same response: ‘We are pleased, so be pleased with us!’ So, He will say: ‘O People of Paradise! If I were not pleased with you, I would not have made you inhabitants of My Paradise! So, ask of Me!’</p>
<p>So, they will all give the same response: ‘Show us your Face so that we may look at it!’ So, the Lord – Mighty and Majestic – will remove his covering and will majestify them and will cover them with His Light, which, if Allaah – the Exalted – had not Willed not to burn them, would have burned them.</p>
<p>And there will not remain a single person in this gathering except that his Lord – the Exalted – will speak to him and say: ‘Do you remember the day that you did this and that?’ and He will remind him of some of his bad deeds in the Worldy life, so he will say: ‘O Lord! Will you not forgive me?’ So, He will say: ‘Of course! You have not reached this position of yours (in Paradise) except by my forgiveness.’</p>
<p>So, how sweet is this speech to the ears, and how cooled are the righteous eyes by the glance at His Noble Face in the Afterlife…</p>
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		<title>The Right Way?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Aug 2010 03:50:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[She lived a delight No worry insight Finding herself Wasn’t a strife She thought of the good She would get in this world Forgetting the hereafter Where eternally she’ll dwell Livin’ for her desires Thinkin’ shes got it all down Ignorant to the deen Which shoulda been her crown. Left the eternal, To gain the [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=sisterslink.wordpress.com&amp;blog=7236497&amp;post=223&amp;subd=sisterslink&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p style="text-align:center;">She lived a <strong>delight</strong></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">No worry insight</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">Finding herself</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">Wasn’t a <span style="text-decoration:underline;">strife</span></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">She thought of the good</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">She would get in this world</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>Forgetting</em> the hereafter</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">Where <strong>eternally</strong> she’ll dwell</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">Livin’ for her desires</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">Thinkin’ shes got it all down</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><span style="text-decoration:underline;">Ignorant</span> to the deen</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">Which shoulda been her <em>crown</em>.</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">Left the <strong>eternal</strong>,</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">To gain the <span style="text-decoration:underline;">temporary</span>.</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">why even consider, something so wary?</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">As time flew</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">So did the <em>pleasures,</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">She thought of her life</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">And all that she<strong> treasured</strong>.</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">She fell on her knees</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">with such a <span style="text-decoration:underline;">displeasure</span>.</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">She finally understood</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">That she’d fallen astray,</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">And it was <em>now or never</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">That she’d choose <strong>the right way</strong>.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[A young man, a student in one of the universities, was one day taking a walk with a Professor, who was commonly called the student&#8217;s friend, from his kindness to those who waited on his instructions. As they went along,they saw lying in the path a pair of old shoes, which they supposed to belong [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=sisterslink.wordpress.com&amp;blog=7236497&amp;post=218&amp;subd=sisterslink&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A young man, a student in one of the universities, was one day taking a walk with a Professor, who was commonly called the student&#8217;s friend, from his kindness to those who waited on his instructions.</p>
<p>As they went along,they saw lying in the path a pair of old shoes, which they supposed to belong to a poor man who was employed in a field close by,and who had nearly finished his day&#8217;s work.</p>
<p>The student turned to the professor, saying: &#8220;Let us play the man a trick: we will hide his shoes, and conceal ourselves behind those bushes, and wait to see his perplexity when he cannot find them.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;My young friend,&#8221; answered the professor, &#8220;we should never amuse ourselves at the expense of the poor. But you are rich, and may give yourself a much greater pleasure by means of this poor man. Put a coin in each shoe, and then we will hide ourselves and watch how this affects him.&#8221;</p>
<p>The student did so and they both placed themselves behind the bushes close by. The poor man soon finished his work, and came across the field to the path where he had left his coat and shoes.</p>
<p>While putting on his coat he slipped his foot into one of his shoes, but feeling something hard, he stooped down to feel what it was, and found the coin. Astonishment and wonder were seen upon his countenance. He gazed upon the coin, turned it around, and looked at it again and again.</p>
<p>He then looked around him on all sides, but no person was to be seen. He now put the money into his pocket, and proceeded to put on the other shoe; but his surprise was doubled on finding the other coin.</p>
<p>His feelings overcame him; he fell upon his knees, looked up to the heavens and uttered aloud a fervent thanksgiving in which he spoke of his wife who was sick and helpless, and his children without bread, whom this timely bounty, from some unknown hand,would save from perishing.</p>
<p>The student stood there deeply affected, and his eyes filled with tears. &#8220;Now,&#8221; said the professor, are you not much better pleased than if you had played your intended trick?&#8221;</p>
<p>The youth replied, &#8220;You have taught me a lesson which I will never forget. I feel now the truth of these words, which I never understood before: &#8220;It&#8217;s more blessed to give than to receive.&#8221;</p>
<p>Abdullah bin Abbas (radi Allahu anhu) reported that the Prophet (sallAllahu alaiyhi wassallam) said that encouraging good, prohibiting evil, lifting the burden of the weak person and removing an offensive thing from a path are all acceptable prayers to Allah.<br />
[ibn Majah]</p>
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		<title>Sa&#8217;ad Al Aswad As-Sulumi&#8217;s Love for Islam</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Jun 2010 04:10:36 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Beautiful example of sincere Love&amp;Commitment for Islam;</p>
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		<title>THE STORY OF BILAAL IBN RABAAH</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[BILAAL IBN RABAAH Sneering at Horror! One of the basic teachings of the religion of Islam is the unity of mankind and equality of people in the sight of God. In chapter 49 of the Qur&#8217;an we read what may be translated as: &#8220;0 mankind! we have created you from single male and female and [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=sisterslink.wordpress.com&amp;blog=7236497&amp;post=196&amp;subd=sisterslink&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<h1 style="text-align:center;"><strong>BILAAL IBN RABAAH</strong></h1>
<h1 style="text-align:center;"><strong><em>Sneering at Horror!</em></strong></h1>
<p><span style="font-family:TlwgTypewriter,monospace;"> </span><span style="font-family:Century Schoolbook L,serif;"><span style="font-size:x-small;">One of the basic teachings of the religion of Islam is the unity of mankind and equality of people in the sight of God. In chapter 49 of the Qur&#8217;an we read what may be translated as: &#8220;0 mankind! we have created you from single male and female and made you into nations and tribes so that you may know one another. Surely, the best of you in the sight of Allah (God) is the most righteous (God fearing) of you.&#8221;</span></span></p>
<p>And this has never been a lip service to equality of people. For from the very outset, the community of Islam included men and women of various tribal, racial and social groups. There were the leaders along with the slaves, and there were the Quraishi Arabs along with the Abyssinians, Persians and others. But in the eyes of Islam and its followers, they were all Muslim brothers with no difference or distinction between them. It is no wonder then that one of the best known heroes of Islam used to describe himself as &#8220;the Abyssinian, who was a slave,&#8221; without any sense of embarrassment, because he knew that to his Muslim brothers this was of no relevance. The hero we are talking about is Bilal ibn Rabah, the muezzin of the Prophet.</p>
<p>Bilal was born of an African slave-girl who belonged to the tribe of Bani Jumah. He was known for his hard work and loyalty to his master, Umayyah ibn Khalaf, a leader of his tribe. Bilal&#8217;s presence in the household of Umayyah gave him the opportunity to hear the comments made by the leaders of Quraish about Prophet Muhammad (pbuh), comments that were a mixture of envy and hatred as well as a confession of Muhammad&#8217;s integrity and honesty. He was finally convinced of what he heard of the teachings of Prophet Muhammad, and he declared his joining of the faith of Islam, to be the first slave convert in Islamic history. This step itself was not an easy one, especially if we realize that even honourable members of the Makkan community were subjected to ridicule and harassment as soon as their conversion to Islam was known to their compatriots. As for slaves in that pre-Islamic society of racial segregation only God knows how much they had to bear, since they were treated no better than any piece of property with which the owner had the right to do whatever he liked. This was the lot of Bilal who, unfortunately, was owned by one of the major antagonists of Islam and its Prophet Muhammad (pbuh). Ummayyah ibn Khalaf used all sorts of torture on Bilal to make him change his mind. He ordered his men to take Bilal naked and throw him on the hellish sands of the desert at the hottest times of the day. To make sure of the effect of that searing sand, they further put a heavy rock on Bilal&#8217;s chest, trying all the time to make him revert to polytheism. Our great hero&#8217;s response was a very simple &#8211; but an effective one, &#8220;Ahad, Ahad (One, One)&#8221; which means, &#8216;there is only One God.&#8221; He said nothing else, but to him this was sufficient to give him all the spiritual support needed to bear the effects of the torture he was exposed to. Umayyah and his men got tired of torturing Bilal. Many asked him just to say something nice of their idols to let him go. But to Bilal torture in its worst form was better than even those few words.</p>
<p>When Umayyah despaired of Bilal&#8217;s reversion to disbelief, he accepted Abu Bakr&#8217;s offer and sold him to Abu Bakr, saying that he was ready to sell him for even an ounce of gold to which Abu Bakr&#8217;s answer was: &#8220;I would have paid even one hundred ounces for him.&#8221; Naturally, with that deal Bilaal was free. For it was the habit of Abu Bakr Al-Siddeeq (R.A.A.) to buy Muslim bondsmen to set them free.</p>
<p>After the migration of the Holy Prophet (pbuh) to Medina, and when the institution of Adhan (call to prayer) was founded, it was Bilal who was the first to be asked by the Prophet to recite it. Later, upon the victorious entry of the Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) to Makkah, and after the destruction of the idols in and around the Ka&#8217;aba, it was Bilal again who was asked to make the call to prayer. No wonder then that this ex-slave Bilal has become one of the best*! known heroes of Islamic history. For he was Muezzin-ur-Rasool, &#8216;The prayer caller of the Messenger of God.&#8217;</p>
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		<title>Poem of the End</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 05 Jun 2010 02:54:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This might be a similar poem many people have read in the past.  I just posted it to remind everyone again:) Poem Of The End It was early in the morning at four, When death knocked upon a bedroom door, Who is there? the sleeping one cried. I&#8217;m Azrael, let me inside. At once, the [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=sisterslink.wordpress.com&amp;blog=7236497&amp;post=192&amp;subd=sisterslink&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="color:#ff6600;">This might be a similar poem many people have read in the past.  I just posted it to remind everyone again:)</span></p>
<h2 style="text-align:center;"><span style="color:#333399;"><span style="text-decoration:underline;">Poem Of The End</span></span></h2>
<p style="text-align:center;">It was early in the morning at four,<br />
When death knocked upon a bedroom door,</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">Who is there? the sleeping one cried.<br />
I&#8217;m Azrael, let me inside.</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">At once, the man began to shiver,<br />
As one sweating in deadly fever,</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">He shouted to his sleeping wife,<br />
Don&#8217;t let him take away my life.</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">Please go away, O Angel of Death!<br />
Leave me alone, I&#8217;m not ready yet.</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">My family on me depends,<br />
Give me a chance, O please prepense!</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">The angel knocked again and again,<br />
Friend! I&#8217;ll take your life without a pain,</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">Tis your soul Allah requires,<br />
I come not with my own desire.</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">Bewildered, the man began to cry,<br />
O Angel I&#8217;m so afraid to die,</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><a href="http://sisterslink.files.wordpress.com/2010/06/t_e_a_r_s_by_islandtime.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-205" title="t_e_a_r_s_by_islandtime" src="http://sisterslink.files.wordpress.com/2010/06/t_e_a_r_s_by_islandtime.jpg?w=300&#038;h=300" alt="" width="300" height="300" /></a></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">I&#8217;ll give you gold and be your slave,<br />
Don&#8217;t send me to the unlit grave.</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">Let me in, O Friend! The Angel said,<br />
Open the door, get up from your bed,</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">If you do not allow me in,<br />
I will walk through it, like a jinn.</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">The man held a gun in his right hand,<br />
Ready to defy the Angel&#8217;s stand.</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">I&#8217;ll point my gun, towards your head,<br />
You dare come in, I&#8217;ll shoot you dead.</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">By now the Angel was in the room,<br />
Saying, O Friend! prepare for you doom.</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">Foolish man, Angels never die,<br />
Put down your gun and do not sigh.</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">Why are you afraid! Tell me O man,<br />
To die according to Allah&#8217;s plan?</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">Come smile at me, do not be grim,<br />
Be Happy to return to Him.</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">O Angel! I bow my head in shame,<br />
I had no time to take Allah&#8217;s Name.</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">From morning till dusk,I made my wealth,<br />
Not even caring for my health.</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">Allah&#8217;s command I never obeyed,<br />
Nor five times a day I ever prayed.</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">A Ramadan came and a Ramadan went,<br />
But no time had I to repent.</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">The Hajj was already FARD on me,<br />
But I would not part with my money.</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">All charities I did ignore,<br />
Taking usury more and more.</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">Sometimes I sipped my favourite wine,<br />
With flirting women I sat to dine.</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">O Angel! I appeal to you,<br />
Spare my life for a year or two.</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">The Laws of Quran I will obey,<br />
I&#8217;ll begin SALAT this very day.</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">My Fast and Hajj, I will complete,<br />
And keep away from self conceit.</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">I will refrain from usury,<br />
And give all my wealth to charity,</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">Wine and wenches I will detest,<br />
Allah&#8217;s oneness I will attest.</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">We Angels do what Allah demands,<br />
We cannot go against His commands.</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">Death is ordained for everyone,<br />
Father, mother, daughter or son.</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">I&#8217;m afraid this moment is your last,<br />
Now be reminded, of your past,</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">I do understand your fears,<br />
But it is now too late for tears.</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">You lived in this world, two score and more,<br />
Never did you, your people adore.</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">Your parents, you did not obey,<br />
Hungry beggars, you turned away.</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">Your two ill-gotten, female offspring,<br />
In night-clubs, for livelihood they sing.</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">Instead of making more Muslims,<br />
You made your children non-Muslims.</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">You ignored the Mua&#8217;dhin Adhaan,<br />
Nor did you read the Holy Quran.</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">Breaking promises all your life,<br />
Backbiting friends, and causing strife.</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">From hoarded goods, great profits you made,<br />
And your poor workers, you underpaid.</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">Horses and cards were your leisure,<br />
Money-making was your pleasure.</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">You ate vitamins and grew more fat,<br />
With the very sick, you never sat.</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">A pint of blood you never gave,<br />
Which could a little baby save.</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">O Human, you have done enough wrong,<br />
You bought good properties for a song.</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">When the farmers appealed to you,<br />
You did not have mercy, tis true.</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">Paradise for you? I cannot tell,<br />
Undoubtedly you will dwell in hell.</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">There is no time for you to repent,<br />
I&#8217;ll take your soul for which I am sent.</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">The ending however, is very sad,<br />
Eventually the man became mad</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">With a cry, he jumped out of bed,<br />
And suddenly, he fell down dead.</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">O Reader! Take moral from here,<br />
you never know, your end may be near</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">change your living and make amends<br />
For heaven, on your deeds depends.</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">If this poem inspires you,<br />
it can help someone too.</p>
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		<title>Lady Sawda bint Zam&#8217;a</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[The first woman Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) married after the death of his first wife Khdija bint Khwailed, and at this time the verse of the Hijab  (women way of clothing) was revealed. Her Name and Descent She is the mother of the beleivers  Sawdah bint-Zam’a bin Qais bin Abd Wed ibn Nasr bin Malek bin [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=sisterslink.wordpress.com&amp;blog=7236497&amp;post=188&amp;subd=sisterslink&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The first  woman Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) married after the death of his first wife  Khdija bint Khwailed, and at this time the verse of the Hijab  (women way of clothing) was revealed.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;" dir="rtl"><strong>Her Name and Descent</strong></p>
<p style="text-align:left;">She is the mother of  the beleivers  Sawdah bint-Zam’a bin Qais bin Abd  Wed ibn Nasr bin Malek bin Hasal bin Aamer bin Loai Alqurashia Al  Ameria ,and her mother Ash Shummous bint Qais bin Zaid bin Omar Al  Ansariah.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;" dir="rtl"><strong>Her Conversion to Islam </strong></p>
<p>She  was a sublime and noble lady, one of the virtuous women of her time.  Before her marriage to Prophet Muhammad (PBUP), she was married to her  cousin who was called As-Sakran bin Amr. When she converted to Islam she  took the oath of allegiance to Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) and her husband  As-Sakran became a Muslim as well. They both migrated to Abyssinia where  she suffered tremendously travelling with him till he died and left her  behind sad and recessive with no assistance or profession and her  father who was an aged man.</p>
<p><strong>Her Marriage</strong></p>
<p style="text-align:left;" dir="rtl">In a narration by Aisha (May Allah be Pleased with her),  reported by Khawlah Bint Hakim Alsalmiah- Sawda’s companion in the  migration to Abyssinia-: “when Prophet Muhammad (PBUH)was looking for a  wife to run the household and take care of Fatima al-Zahra&#8217;(his  daughter), he was told to marry Aisha, but he refused at that time  because of her young age”. So Khawla told him about Sawda Bint Zam’a.  She was a conscious middle aged lady, full of faith, even if her youth  was gone and she was not much beautiful. Khawla did not even finish her  speech when Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) praised Sawda and agreed to marry  her</p>
<p style="text-align:left;" dir="rtl">Prophet Muhammad( PBUH) married  Sawda Bint Zam’a  while she had six sons, and her  marriage was in Ramadan in the tenth year of Prophet hood ,after the  death of Khadija- the Mother of the Believers &#8211; in Mecca (it was said  ;year eight  of al Hijra  on  a four hundred dirhams dowry), and migrated to al Madina</p>
<p style="text-align:left;" dir="rtl"><strong>Her virtue</strong></p>
<p style="text-align:left;" dir="rtl">Sawda(may Allah be Pleased with her) is considered one of  the virtuous of her time, she became a Muslim and took an oath of  allegiance to Prophet Muhammad(PBUH),she migrated to Abyssinia, Prophet  Muhammad (PBUH)married her and she was one of the most loved ones to his  heart of  his wives, she was known for her  righteousness and piety, she narrated a lot of the Prophet’s sayings and  a lot were narrated about her. The verse of “Hijab” <em>(literally &#8220;cover&#8221;; it describes  the self-covering of the body for the purposes of modesty and dignity</em><em>)</em> was revealed in her  time. One of her special features was her love of charity</p>
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<p style="text-align:left;" dir="rtl"><strong>Her characteristics</strong></p>
<p style="text-align:left;" dir="rtl">When the Mother of the Believers ‘Aisha (may   Allah be Pleased with her) entered  Prophet  Muhammad&#8217;s(PBUH) house as a beloved wife filling the eyes with  youthfulness, funniness and cleverness, Sawda(may Allah be Pleased with  her) wanted to abandon her post in the Prophet&#8217;s (PBUH) house in which  she did not see except mercy and dignity for the sake of ‘Aisha (may  Allah be Pleased with her)  whose affection ,  preference and pride of her father made her closer to the Prophet  (PBUH),and that was a beautifulness that men adores .</p>
<p style="text-align:left;" dir="rtl">Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) was pleased with ‘Aisha&#8217;s (May  Allah be Pleased with her) company for her cheerfulness and youthfulness  in his house, so Sawda (May Allah be Pleased with her) got sulked and  felt as being  a prisoner in her husband&#8217;s house.  Prophet Muhammad asked Lady Sawda one day if she wanted divorce, knowing  that her only needs from marriage is protection and comfort, and she  had this in the Prophet’s house for she was living under the inviolability of the Prophet and the blessing of Allah the Almighty</p>
<p style="text-align:left;" dir="rtl">As her feminine jealousness was at ease, Sawda said:  “Messenger of Allah; I have no keenness to be your wife like ‘Aisha, so  keep me just to live near you, to love whom you love and to be pleased  for your happiness.</p>
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<p style="text-align:left;" dir="rtl">Sawda consolidated herself to tame  her jealousy with piety, and to give her day which the Prophet used to  spend with her to ‘Aisha</p>
<p style="text-align:left;" dir="rtl">And after the Prophet  (PBUH)married Hafsa bint Omar (May Allah be pleased with them) as a  consolidation after her husband died and her age did not exceed  eighteen, Sawda’s life was at ease living with two other wives of the  Prophet, but she was closer to ‘Ayisha, trying to satisfy her for her  husband&#8217;s  sake</p>
<p style="text-align:left;" dir="rtl">Sawda was of praise worthy ethics, a  good woman that loves charity so much. ‘Aisha talked about her and  said:&#8221; the wives of the Prophet (PBUH) told the Prophet one day:&#8221;O  Messenger of Allah, which one of us will be the next to die to follow  you? He (PBUH) said: &#8221;the one of you with the longest hand&#8221;. After the  Prophet’s (PBUH) death we knew that the length of her hand was because  of charity</p>
<p style="text-align:left;" dir="rtl"><strong>Her work</strong></p>
<p style="text-align:left;" dir="rtl">Sawda narrated five  Hadiths from the Prophet’s</p>
<p style="text-align:left;" dir="rtl">Abdullah bin Abbas and Yahya bin Abdul Rahman bin Sa&#8217;din  Zarah Al Ansari reported from her</p>
<p style="text-align:left;" dir="rtl">Abu Dawood and Al Nasaie narrated from her</p>
<p style="text-align:left;" dir="rtl"><strong>Her Death</strong></p>
<p style="text-align:left;" dir="rtl">Sawda died at the end of Omar bin Al Khattab’s khilapha .It  is said that she died in Al Madinah Al Munawwara in Shawwal year fifty  four. Ibn Abbas performed “sujoud” when she died</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">When He was asked for the reason, he said:&#8221; Prophet  Muhammad (PBUH) said: if you see a sign kneel.&#8221; So what sign is greater  than witnessing the death of the Prophet’s wives.</p>
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<p style="text-align:left;">Citation:</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">Sieny, Prof. Mahmoud Esmail. &#8220;Supporting Prophet Muhammad&#8217;s website  __Lady Sawda bint Zam&#8217;a.&#8221; <em>::Muhammad The Prophet of Islam ::ãæÞÚ äÕÑÉ  ÓíÏäÇ ãÍãÏ Ñ Óæá Çááå </em>. N.p., n.d. Web. 4 June 2010.  &lt;http://www.rasoulallah.net/v2/document.aspx?lang=en&amp;doc=248&gt;.</p>
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